My Pink Ribbon Desk: STOP! For my happiness and others..

Salams!!

How I did it: Honestly it was a matter of being really aware of what I was doing to myself and the position I was putting others in. I knew what I was doing was unfair and I never felt fulfilled living on the idea that I had to wait around for someone else to make my day or fill my dream.

I had to start deciding I was going to step out on my own in the world and be OK with my day with or without people approving.
Then I had to be OK with living with disappointment and not placing blame. Sometimes crap happens. Shoot, OK let's do something else now.

Lessons & tips: This goal is about accepting your life as you see fit. Don't wait around for others to make it happen for you.

Know your friends care but don't make them co-dependents to your problems. Own your life.

Identify your weak spots and call yourself on them, step back and say it out loud that your going to re-direct attention.

Resources: Work with a counselor if you need coaching.

Journal your successes. The little things end up adding to the big things. Months from now think how much you can change.

OK, this thing above, I found it somewhere in the Internet, so i dont own this thing ok! anyway, this thing above tell me about how "I should STOP depending so much on other people". Bile depend sgt kt org, hidup sendiri tak jln..n we'll end up, menyusahkan org! Nak buat tu kene tunggu org, nak buat ni kene tunggu orng..contohnye memandu! OMG!!!! I really have to start driving!!! Sume bnde tak leh buat, sbb Im too scared to drive the damn car!!

Masuk kereta je, jantung rase cam nek tercabut, nak tekan break, leh plak tertekan minyak!! TAKOTNYE!!!!!!!! Tapi, skng ni dah nak kene cari kerja, I cant expect other people to carry me and take me pegi cari kerja, org ade keje lain ok! Tp, if only i have the courage kan! Courage mourage! I have to do it!